Thursday, July 19, 2007@6:01 AM
E.g. "Boy Meets Girl" OR "Girl Meet Boy" - people focus too much on the physical instead of inner beauty when choosing a partner.Discuss
Many people choose the partner that are more better looking physically rather than inner beauty.Some likes rather normal looking girls/guys not because of their inner beauty but rather because of their money while some were forced into liking partners that they don't really like because of peers pressure for example a guy/girl has chosen a girl/guy in his/her own heart secretly but she/he is not very attractive or rather a normal looking girl/guy. Many of that guys/girls friends have very attractive girl/boy friends so that particular guy/girl might feel embarrassed to show the one he/she has chosen to his/her friends fearing that she/he might be laught at. Not every one is the same, some people just like outer appearance compared to inner beauty. Although inner beauty is the most beautiful thing is a pity that it can not be seen so easily, in order to see one particular's inner beautiful you first have to know that person then you could slowly see his/her inner beauty unlike physical beauty which can be seen with just one glance at a person and able to tell wether is beautiful/handsome or not.
Friday, July 6, 2007@9:12 PM
How can we ensure that we can be responsible and upkeep moral values when in a relationship with the members of the opposite sex. Do you agree?
I have something to confess before I go on with the question, I am not really experienced in this relationship thing and I don't really understand it too as to me relationship is one hell of a confusing, crazy and addictive thing. Relationship is as deadly as a gun, don't play with it or start it if you are not sure about it. If you play with it or misuse it you might end up unnecessarily hurting yourself or others, made unnecessary enemies or if it turned out badly it might even cause death. If you don't think you can handle it, the best thing to do is to stay away from it but you also can't avoid it forever so the best thing is to treat it with respect, love and with extremely responsibility. In relationships it is very easy to have misunderstanding with any slight error, so try to have no mistakes when you having relationship with the members of the opposite sex.
Don't just do what ever the other party ask you or force you to do, differentiate right and wrong. Do only when you feels it right, leave each other a breathing space and have faith in each other don't believe others easily (although they might be right sometimes). Be as forgiving as you can because as long as your are human you will make mistake so you can't blame him/her for making a slight mistake ,try and forgive him/her this way you are also slowly building better bond with the member of the opposite sex and also building trust among each other.
And the last but not the least cherish it while you have the chance to cherish it.
Saturday, June 30, 2007@10:08 PM
Discuss "A platonic friendship is possible even between a guy and a girl ( Close bonding between a boy and a girl does not necessarily mean they like each other )".
I believe any one whether is a guy or a girl also can be a very good friend as long as they can get along with each other.Getting along very well with a female friend does necessarily means that you are a sissy or you two likes each other, maybe both of you have same sense of style, same taste on music or songs or maybe even because both of you have many things in common.
What if lets say there is no friendship between guys and girls, there couldn't probably have any relationships (e.g. girl friend/boy friend) if there is no relationships there could probably also won't have any life long partnership(marriage) for most people. If there were no friendship between guys and girls then the world could probably be divided into two where one side of the world is filled with guys and the other side filled with girls. I think that won't feel nice to live in a place where there is only one group of sex in each side of the world. As for the part of the world which is filled with guys, will sooner or later run out of topic to talk about and the part of the world for the girls, they might need a sense of protection from the guys as some girls feels safe when they have their guy friend with them but for some girls they feels otherwise .
I also believe that having a female friend also will not hurt a guy. So why not try having a female friend(refering to those who never had a female friend before) maybe you might find the one that who truely understand you or you might also find the one that you truely understand. By the way when you are with the right kind of girl, you will never run out of topic to talk about. Same goes for the girls too and also when you are with the right kind of dude you might have trouble trying to stop laughing for that dude's joke or you are with another type of right guy you might feel real safe(but for those girls that feels otherwise, sorry to say i don't have any solution other than staying away from guys).
That all i got to say but there are many things left to be discovered by ourselves(refering to both guys and girls).
Thursday, June 28, 2007@6:25 AM
