Friday, July 6, 2007
@9:12 PM
How can we ensure that we can be responsible and upkeep moral values when in a relationship with the members of the opposite sex. Do you agree?
I have something to confess before I go on with the question, I am not really experienced in this relationship thing and I don't really understand it too as to me relationship is one hell of a confusing, crazy and addictive thing. Relationship is as deadly as a gun, don't play with it or start it if you are not sure about it. If you play with it or misuse it you might end up unnecessarily hurting yourself or others, made unnecessary enemies or if it turned out badly it might even cause death. If you don't think you can handle it, the best thing to do is to stay away from it but you also can't avoid it forever so the best thing is to treat it with respect, love and with extremely responsibility. In relationships it is very easy to have misunderstanding with any slight error, so try to have no mistakes when you having relationship with the members of the opposite sex.
Don't just do what ever the other party ask you or force you to do, differentiate right and wrong. Do only when you feels it right, leave each other a breathing space and have faith in each other don't believe others easily (although they might be right sometimes). Be as forgiving as you can because as long as your are human you will make mistake so you can't blame him/her for making a slight mistake ,try and forgive him/her this way you are also slowly building better bond with the member of the opposite sex and also building trust among each other.
And the last but not the least cherish it while you have the chance to cherish it.